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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Rewind): Why Men “Love Bomb” and What You Can Do About It

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 15 December 2023

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever had someone come into your life, dazzle you with their initial investment and attention, only to disappear as fast as they came?

This phenomenon has been nicknamed “Love Bombing,” and it can be very painful, especially when you were led to believe it was going somewhere.

You may be asking yourself why someone would do this. In this week’s rewind episode I’ll show you…

My hope is that this episode will not only give you a sense of closure, but also help you to move past the heartache you are feeling right now if this has happened to you. I also show you how to avoid it in the future.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

They say a lot of lovely things, they're very charming, they make a lot of promises,

0:04.5

and then can't live up to those promises because it was never about building something.

0:08.1

It was always about feeling something. Oh, Hey, Matthew Hussey here with the Love Life Podcast.

0:28.7

Excited for you to hear the episode today.

0:34.0

Let's get into it.

0:37.0

Why do men love bomb.

0:49.0

I got asked this question on one of our recent love life webinars. Why do guys come in, get you attracted, make you fall in love, give you compliments, make promises, and then ghost you.

0:59.0

Love bombing is an interesting concept and it's one that's worth understanding more about. in because they don't feel enough unless they're making someone fall in love with them.

1:16.2

That they need someone to have an image of them that's so wonderful and reflected back to them

1:23.6

so that they can feel like, okay, I can breathe.

1:26.9

Look, someone's falling in love with me.

1:28.4

Someone thinks I'm amazing.

1:30.1

Now I guess I am amazing.

1:31.8

Someone thinks it. And of course course in order to make you feel this

1:34.7

they say a lot of lovely things they're very charming they make a lot of promises

1:40.5

and then can't live up to those promises because it was never about building something.

1:44.2

It was always about feeling something.

1:46.6

Of course, the person on the receiving end becomes the collateral damage

1:50.6

for this need that a person has.

1:53.0

Now firstly, don't beat yourself up because you feel all of this for this person.

1:59.0

This person actually sold you on that image.

2:02.0

They said things and did things to lead you down a certain

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