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Friendship Therapy

S3, Ep 9 Friendship Therapy: Surface Dwellers and Depth Seekers - exploring emotional depth in male friendships

Friendship Therapy

Emma Reed Turrell

Society & Culture, Relationships, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 16 December 2024

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to this week's episode of Friendship Therapy, the podcast in which we look at friendships through a therapeutic lens.

This week, Emma is joined by Elliot to talk about what it's like to be an, as he puts it, emotional male within male friendship groups. Elliot shares an experience that many of us might be able to relate to: being unceremoniously exited from a friendship group chat, with no real explanation or conversation beforehand. 

In this episode, Emma and Elliot talk about why being a lone voice in the wilderness might feel lonely, but might also be necessary when it comes to blazing a trail towards greater emotional intimacy and permission to be authentic among a group of individuals who haven't necessarily been encouraged to be vulnerable.

Emma and Elliot also chat about the difference between friends who are surface dwellers and the ones who are depth seekers, and how to avoid emotional bends when we're traveling between different water pressures. In fact, this episode makes a lot of references to the ocean, from Finding Nemo to treasure chests - so we encourage you to settle back on your Lilo and enjoy the conversation.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Well, jingle my bells, Moonpigs.

0:03.0

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0:05.0

Yes, especially you.

0:08.0

I see Christmas stickers, photos, videos, handwritten messages and such jolly designs.

0:15.0

Now, get on your sleigh or skates.

0:19.0

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0:23.9

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0:25.6

To verify, see www.moolepig.com slash personalized.

0:31.2

Welcome to this week's episode of Friendship Therapy, the podcast in which we look at friendships through a therapeutic lens.

0:39.2

And this week I'm joined by Elliot to talk about what it's like to be and, as he puts it,

0:45.6

emotional male, within male friendship groups. We talk about why being a lone voice in the wilderness

0:51.7

might feel lonely, but might also be necessary when it

0:55.2

comes to blazing a trail towards greater emotional intimacy and permission to be authentic

1:00.2

among a group of individuals who haven't necessarily been encouraged to be vulnerable.

1:05.7

We chat about the difference between friends who are surface dwellers and the ones who are

1:10.3

depth seekers and how to navigate

1:12.5

the distance. We explore how to avoid the emotional bends when we're travelling between

1:18.3

different water pressures. In fact, we make a lot of references to the ocean in this episode

1:22.8

from finding Nemo to treasure chests. So settle back on your Lilo and enjoy the conversation.

1:32.1

Hi Elliot. How can I help? Hi, Emo. Joining today, I think I've always been quite an emotional

1:39.6

male, which I think is quite atypical. I find navigating male relationships, I think across my adult life now, it's been noticeable

1:51.4

that there's been kind of disparities in, I guess, receptiveness to kind of be vulnerable with,

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