Sexual Development and Maturity

Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Self-improvement, Education, Mental Health, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.4 • 978 Ratings

🗓️ 15 December 2022

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

Loving sexuality in marriage provides a refuge from the suffering and difficulty that is inherent to living. When sexuality is mature, based in love and acceptance, it has the power to sustain us, rejuvenate our souls, and expand our capacity for joy. In this NEW PODCAST episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Tammy Hill of the Live Your Why podcast to talk about how we can develop sexual maturity and use our sexuality to create more partnership and connection in our marriages. Listen to the full episode to learn more about: *Female orgasm *Sexual response cycles for men and women (they’re different!) *Masturbation and sexual awareness *Fantasy *Surrender and pleasure If you enjoyed this episode and want to learn more, consider enrolling in Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Art of Desire course for women!

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0:00.0	Welcome to Conversations with Dr. Jennifer, a collection of interviews on the topics of relationships, sexuality, and more, all featuring Dr Finlayson Fife.
0:21.0	Today on the Live Your Wide Podcast, I'm speaking with a dear friend Jennifer Finlay-M-Fife.
0:27.7	You know her and love her and I'm sure many of you have taken some of her courses on self-awareness,
0:35.0	understanding sexual desire, sexual development in marriage, male, sexual
0:40.4	shame. She does such wonderful work. I've admired her work for many years and I'm
0:47.3	delighted that she could be here with me today. We're going to be talking a little bit
0:51.6	about female orgasm, the elusive female orgasm.
0:57.4	As a professor here at BYU who teaches a lot of students about preparing for marriage and then early marriage
1:04.9	transitions. There are frequent conversations I have with students as well as
1:11.0	clients who come to see me professionally, where there's a difficulty in being able to achieve orgasm.
1:18.0	And these sweet young ladies feel like something seriously wrong with them because it's not happening for them the way that they thought that it would.
1:28.0	And there's a lot of their early marriage conversations and time in together sexually that end up feeling like I'm a problem or I am the problem or I am the problem or I don't want to try to work on me anymore because it never works out.
1:46.0	We'll just have sex with you because I know you need it.
1:50.0	A lot of this thinking around being the burden sexually within a marriage.
1:55.8	This idea is not helpful.
1:58.9	However, if you look at our culture, you can totally understand why women often feel like they're the broken
2:07.0	the broken partners in sexual relationships. Let me just tell you a little bit about
2:12.3	some history around sexual research.
2:16.4	The original sexologist, Masters, and Johnson, back in the late 50s, early 60s did their first real brain scans on individuals learning a little bit more
2:28.4	about sexuality and what happens within the body and within the brain as a person has desire, experiences
2:37.1	arousal, experiences an orgasm, and then resolution or afterglow.
2:44.0	All of those subjects that were originally studied by matches in Johnson were men.
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