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🗓️ 15 December 2022
⏱️ 50 minutes
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0:00.0 | Welcome to Conversations with Dr. Jennifer, a collection of interviews on the topics of relationships, sexuality, and more, all featuring Dr Finlayson Fife. |
0:21.0 | Today on the Live Your Wide Podcast, I'm speaking with a dear friend Jennifer Finlay-M-Fife. |
0:27.7 | You know her and love her and I'm sure many of you have taken some of her courses on self-awareness, |
0:35.0 | understanding sexual desire, sexual development in marriage, male, sexual |
0:40.4 | shame. She does such wonderful work. I've admired her work for many years and I'm |
0:47.3 | delighted that she could be here with me today. We're going to be talking a little bit |
0:51.6 | about female orgasm, the elusive female orgasm. |
0:57.4 | As a professor here at BYU who teaches a lot of students about preparing for marriage and then early marriage |
1:04.9 | transitions. There are frequent conversations I have with students as well as |
1:11.0 | clients who come to see me professionally, where there's a difficulty in being able to achieve orgasm. |
1:18.0 | And these sweet young ladies feel like something seriously wrong with them because it's not happening for them the way that they thought that it would. |
1:28.0 | And there's a lot of their early marriage conversations and time in together sexually that end up feeling like I'm a problem or I am the problem or I am the problem or I don't want to try to work on me anymore because it never works out. |
1:46.0 | We'll just have sex with you because I know you need it. |
1:50.0 | A lot of this thinking around being the burden sexually within a marriage. |
1:55.8 | This idea is not helpful. |
1:58.9 | However, if you look at our culture, you can totally understand why women often feel like they're the broken |
2:07.0 | the broken partners in sexual relationships. Let me just tell you a little bit about |
2:12.3 | some history around sexual research. |
2:16.4 | The original sexologist, Masters, and Johnson, back in the late 50s, early 60s did their first real brain scans on individuals learning a little bit more |
2:28.4 | about sexuality and what happens within the body and within the brain as a person has desire, experiences |
2:37.1 | arousal, experiences an orgasm, and then resolution or afterglow. |
2:44.0 | All of those subjects that were originally studied by matches in Johnson were men. |
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