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🗓️ 14 June 2024
⏱️ 60 minutes
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0:00.0 | Welcome to Conversations with Dr. Jennifer, a collection of interviews on the topics of relationships, sexuality, and more, all featuring Dr Finlayson Fife. |
0:27.5 | Today's episode is the audio recording from a Facebook live on the topic of men's sexuality. If you would like to join Dr. Finlaysenfeif's free Facebook |
0:31.6 | group so that you can participate in future live conversations, |
0:34.9 | you can find the link in the show notes below. |
0:37.2 | Enjoy the episode. |
0:38.0 | Welcome everybody to the session. We're going to talk about understanding |
0:46.8 | men's sexuality and obviously there's a lot more to be said on this topic and I think a topic that's actually been kind of under |
0:56.1 | addressed actually in our LDS group more we talk about it in negative terms like, you know, pornography and how men are the problem. |
1:07.0 | I actually just should say I've been, I'm working on a book and I finished writing the men's chapter a few weeks ago and just doing |
1:17.8 | a lot more reading from that frame and I have to say I kind of feel for the men sometimes because there's a lot of you guys might have the power more than women do but don't screw it up, |
1:33.0 | and you're making women cry. |
1:34.6 | And, you know, there's more of this assumption |
1:37.5 | of men having power, but then a lot of pressure to not do harm. |
1:48.0 | And so just reading it more from the frame of, you know, I heard it all obviously growing up as a female and sort of these |
1:55.2 | invalidating messages around women's sexuality, women being sexual beings and so on, but looking at it more from a men's lens, I, it may feel some |
2:08.9 | real compassion for the messages men get, so they may supposedly be the ones who have the |
2:14.0 | priesthood have the agency and you know arguably that is the messaging that they receive |
2:20.4 | but they're responsible for a lot more and there's a lot of fear that while they may well be legitimately sexual beings |
2:28.1 | They're gonna harm with or there's the risk of harming it |
2:32.4 | So you know just one of the quote with or there's the risk of harming it. |
2:33.0 | So you know, just one of the quotes was that, you know, God counts women's tears. |
2:41.9 | And that is if you men are causing your wives to cry, God's counting. Now, I don't know if he's counting men's tears. |
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