4.4 • 978 Ratings
🗓️ 15 August 2023
⏱️ 44 minutes
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0:00.0 | Welcome to Conversations with Dr. Jennifer, a collection of interviews on the topics of relationships, sexuality, and more, all featuring Dr Finlayson-Fife. |
0:27.6 | Welcome, Jennifer. Welcome Jennifer again for the fourth time to pivot parenting. I really appreciate having you on. Thanks for having me. We are going to have an excellent conversation today. |
0:35.7 | One thing that I have noticed on occasion with my clients and I have enjoyed listening in |
0:41.5 | your room for two paid podcast that I can't say enough good about. |
0:46.1 | I tell all my friends and family that they need to subscribe. |
0:50.2 | I even, full disclosure, I've even bought the subscription for some people because of the value that you deliver on. |
0:57.0 | But that is of triangulation. |
1:01.0 | So I don't know that a lot of people are familiar with that term. Can you define what |
1:09.4 | triangulation with a parent child dynamic can look like. |
1:16.2 | So Murray Bowen, who was the kind of the father |
1:20.2 | of differentiation theory, he talked about the fact that diatic relationships are unstable and that even in physics the thing to make something more stable is to turn it into a |
1:38.1 | triangle right and so whenads come under stress like a marital relationship, |
1:47.2 | it's very easy to go look for a third party |
1:50.5 | to help stabilize the diad. |
1:53.4 | And there's nothing wrong with triangles. |
1:55.9 | There's nothing wrong. |
1:56.9 | You know, even a version of a kind of healthy triangle |
2:00.3 | would be, well, couples who go to a therapist that's involving a third party, |
2:06.0 | but is not necessarily bad for the relationship. |
2:10.0 | Another version of a triangle is a shared kind of endeavor effort. |
2:15.0 | You're working together for the same goal. |
2:18.0 | That's a way of a triangulation that increases the stability of the diad. But there's a lot of immature and |
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