282: The Dangerous Lie That’s Holding Back Your Love Life

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 6 February 2025

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Matthew Hussey explores why we often delay moving forward, waiting for the "perfect" time to start fresh. What if that perfect time never comes? Drawing from a powerful conversation at a recent Love Life Club event, Matthew unpacks how we unintentionally put our lives on hold, whether in love, career, or personal growth.

Matthew also talks about limiting beliefs and reshaping your mindset so you can stop waiting and start living—even in the messy, imperfect middle of life!

Topics include:

The illusion of a "fresh start" and why life never truly pauses
A Love Life Club member's dilemma: Can you date while preparing for single parenthood?
The reality of navigating life nel mezzo—in the middle of everything
How our subconscious wiring shapes our goals and behaviors
The trap of waiting for ideal conditions before taking action
Why New Year's resolutions often fail (and what actually works)

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Hey everybody, welcome back to the Love Life podcast with me, Matthew Hussie.
0:09.0	Thank you so much for listening to this podcast, or if you watch it on YouTube, thank you for watching.
0:15.0	We are really excited about the podcast this year.
0:19.0	And I wanted to start by announcing that next month,
0:22.9	I am injecting fresh life into this podcast along with my team and some names that you know
0:29.8	on my team to create something that we believe is going to be really, really exciting for you. I won't say more about it now,
0:40.0	but it is in the works when we have our first air date. I will let you know in advance so you can
0:46.0	tune in to that launch of the new version of the Love Life podcast. But it's something that
0:53.2	internally we are all really looking forward to,
0:56.3	and I can't wait to share it with you. I also am going to be releasing a series of a different
1:04.0	kind of episode on the podcast, and you can tell me whether you enjoy it or not, but for the last year and a half, I have been writing a letter to my mailing list every Friday
1:18.7	called The Three Relationships.
1:21.6	At the end of 2023, I finished writing my book Love Life.
1:28.7	And I took on the task of having finished a book, writing a letter to my audience in my private
1:39.7	newsletter every single week for the next year, which ended up being equivalent to writing a whole new book.
1:48.2	I didn't frame it to myself like that at the time, but that's actually what happened as a result.
1:53.1	And actually, some of my favorite pieces of writing came out of spending many hours a week
2:00.4	writing these pieces for that audience. If you missed them,
2:04.4	by the way, and you want to get on my newsletter, you can do that by going to the3 relationships.com.
2:09.5	It's free. I send it out every Friday. But some of them had so much work put into them that
2:16.3	it felt like I needed to share them with you.
2:20.5	And so I want to take the podcast as a place, a vehicle, where I can share these pieces of
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