(Rewind): This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Major RED FLAG
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 7 February 2025
⏱️ 18 minutes
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Summary
It’s so easy in the early stages to confuse big gestures with real romance. In this clip, I’ll show you how being able to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential and save you SO much grief and time in relationships.
You’ll also see how to communicate your needs if someone isn’t giving you real closeness and it feels like they are rushing forward while not showing real consistency.
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| 0:00.0 | The problem is when there is an asymmetry between what the two people want, |
| 0:05.0 | when he is looking at it as an experience and she is looking at it as a stepping stone to something more. What's up, guys, welcome back to Love Life with me, Matthew Hussey. |
| 0:36.8 | If you haven't already, make sure to go and |
| 0:39.0 | download our new free guide at what to say next.com. This is a free guide where I give you nine |
| 0:46.3 | specific things that you can say to spark up a conversation and connect with someone new. A lot of |
| 0:51.5 | people out there are struggling because they're simply not meeting enough people or they're relying too much on the dating apps and burning out. If you want to get out |
| 0:59.2 | there, socialize and meet new people in real life, this guide is super practical and it's going to help |
| 1:04.7 | you do that. Go over to what to say next.com to get that free guide. And this episode is a rewind episode that I think you're |
| 1:14.3 | really going to enjoy, one from the archives. So check it out. And if you want to email me your |
| 1:19.2 | feedback or a question for a future episode, email podcast at Matthewhussie.com. |
| 1:28.2 | It's quite fascinating, isn't it? |
| 1:30.2 | The red flags in early interactions that we miss. |
| 1:36.0 | And I was made aware of one in particular that's a really interesting one that I think a lot |
| 1:42.4 | of people miss by one of my love life club members on a live |
| 1:48.8 | coaching call I did with them the other day. This particular person said that she had met a guy |
| 1:54.8 | right at the beginning of COVID. They had stayed in touch over the course of COVID. They hadn't |
| 2:00.5 | seen each other during that time. |
| 2:01.6 | And then at one point, they were able to see each other in person. |
| 2:06.6 | She lived in London. |
| 2:07.6 | He lived in New York, and she flew out to see him in New York. |
| 2:13.6 | They had an amazing few days together, really got on well. It was really romantic. They did |
| 2:22.2 | amazing things, went to beautiful restaurants, had a great time, and then she flew home. |
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