292: The Red Flags You SHOULD Be Paying Attention To

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 17 April 2025

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Are you walking away too fast—or staying when you shouldn’t?

In this episode, Matthew Hussey shares an honest look at how we misread red flags in dating in an interview with Lisa Bilyeu (@LisaBilyeu). You’ll learn how to spot real red flags vs. amber lights, when to pause instead of panic, and how the right relationship can help you heal.

🎯 Topics include:

The difference between a red flag and an “amber light” 🚦
How fear and past hurt can make us overreact or shut down 😬
The danger of going into dating like an "assessor" rather than a present and open human being.
Why empathy without boundaries can be dangerous—and how to balance compassion with standards.
How relationships can be healing if you show up the right way 💞

Whether you’ve been burned in the past or just want to date with more emotional intelligence, this one’s for you.

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0:00.0	Hey everybody, it's Matthew and Audrey.
0:06.9	Hello, everyone.
0:08.0	Welcome back to the Love Life podcast.
0:10.0	I'm just recording this on my phone right now from our home here in Los Angeles.
0:14.5	The crew is going to be back together next week for an episode with me, Audrey and Stephen.
0:19.8	Thank you for all of your wonderful comments on
0:21.7	those. I know that you guys have been really enjoying them. It would also mean a lot to us if you
0:27.6	would leave a review on Apple iTunes podcasts because it really helps us to get the word out there
0:35.6	about the new format. If you're enjoying it,
0:38.2	we would really appreciate you going and leaving a review. Either way, leave a review. It just
0:43.4	means a lot to us to help get the word out there. And this week, we have a really fun little moment
0:49.7	from an interview I did with Lisa Bilyu, a dear friend of ours on the Women of Impact
0:54.6	podcast that she has graciously allowed us to use on our own podcast. We think you're really
1:00.6	going to enjoy this one. So it's all about red flags. Listen in. Can't wait to hear what you think.
1:06.3	As always, you can email us podcast at Matthew Hussie..com enjoy this one and the gang will be together again
1:13.6	next week see you next week before we get into this video i want to let you know that i have now
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1:29.3	This is only until Friday the 25th of this month.
1:33.3	Then it goes back up to its normal price.
1:35.3	It is worth way more than $7 for an entire month.
1:38.3	But I'm doing this because more of you need to try this.
1:41.3	It can help you with so many aspects of your love life, your confidence,
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