(Matt Monday): Confusing Sh*t Men Say (And What They Really Mean)
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 27 November 2022
⏱️ 17 minutes
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Summary
“Let’s just take it day by day.”
“We may not be ‘official,’ but I basically act like your boyfriend. Aren’t actions enough for you?”
“I like you too much to be with you . . .”
Any of these sound familiar?
Trying to decode the excuses guys give for the reason why they don’t want an exclusive relationship can get incredibly confusing. How is it that you can have great communication with a guy in nearly every area . . . yet when it comes to talking about the relationship, you feel like you’re speaking different languages?
For today’s brand-new episode, I asked you to send me the “most confusing thing a guy’s ever said to you,” and you didn’t disappoint.
From classic excuses to creative new ones, you’ll learn how to figure out whether what he’s saying is actually a red flag indicating that he’s just looking for something casual with you, or whether it’s safe to proceed. Together we’ll walk through 9 of the top excuses so you know how to spot them in the future and avoid unnecessary pain.
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| 0:00.0 | So I can't, I'm not gonna invest in you in any real way, but I do like you. |
| 0:05.4 | I like you enough that, you know, we should probably keep having sex. |
| 0:10.0 | Today we're gonna be talking about the confusing things that men say, but men before in the |
| 0:34.8 | comments you say that women are confusing too. |
| 0:37.4 | Maybe we'll do a future episode on the confusing things that women say, but we did put out |
| 0:42.3 | the word on my Instagram at the Matthew Hussey for those of you who aren't following me yet. |
| 0:48.9 | We put out the word and said, what's something confusing a man has said to you? |
| 0:54.0 | So we're gonna read you some of these things today. |
| 0:55.9 | In fact, the wonderful Audrey is gonna read us some of these things and I am gonna be attempting |
| 1:02.8 | to dissect them, which Lord knows isn't easy. |
| 1:09.8 | Alright, let's go. |
| 1:10.6 | What's the first one? |
| 1:12.4 | You're the kind of girl you marry, not the kind of girl you date. |
| 1:16.5 | Well, it's flattering you, isn't it? |
| 1:18.8 | Firstly, it's saying there are qualities about you that one would look for in a long-term |
| 1:24.8 | partner, but it's also kind of, I don't know. |
| 1:28.3 | I don't know what he said after that, but I feel like I'm not the only one in the room who |
| 1:32.8 | thinks that that came with some kind of excuse about him not being ready. |
| 1:36.7 | When you say, you're the kind of person you marry, not the kind of person you date, that |
| 1:41.1 | to me is a way of saying, and I'm the kind of person who's only willing to date right |
| 1:46.0 | now and therefore I can't proceed with you. |
| 1:50.3 | It might also, from being really honest, be a kind of cue that this person isn't sexually |
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