Why do they do that? Why would they ever fall for a person that terrible?

Why would they think that continuing to over-invest in this person who's giving nothing back was a good idea?

Why did they ignore that red flag? flash. This is normally the time of year where people begin to make resolutions or have already

made resolutions about things that they want to change in 2024.

Those resolutions tend to be around things that ultimately we would like to achieve.

Many people watch this channel because they want to find love, they want to be more confident,

they want to feel more attractive in themselves, they want to work on their self-worth.

But I suppose the way I'd like to start this year is, in some ways it feels a little antithetical to the idea of resolutions because I think

one of the big problems with New Year's resolutions is that they assume that we are starting with a new operating system.

And the operating system we have that we're starting with in 2024 has these capabilities that can run the new

programs that we are going to start. So like a resolution is like a new program.

I want to run this new program.

Whether it's waking up earlier, going to the gym,

attacking my dating life differently,

approaching people differently when it comes to love. Those are new programs that we want to run.

And we may have a resolution that says run the new program,

but what we have to understand is that we're still carrying the old operating system

into the new year.

We didn't, just because the calendar year ticked over into a new one,

it doesn't mean we now get given a new operating system for the year.

So what happens with resolutions a lot is we try and run this new program on an old operating system.

You know, it maybe works for a couple of days or for a few hours and then it stops working.

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