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🗓️ 29 December 2023
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them?
Maybe it’s their attractiveness or intelligence . . . or perhaps it’s their success, wealth, or status (such as the example in today’s episode) that has you feeling lucky whenever they turn their attention to you.
Whatever it might be, the reaction we often have to this feeling is highly toxic for our happiness . . . because we start to shrink our needs.
We become pleasers and find it almost impossible to set any kind of boundaries for fear that this will drive them away and they’ll disappear. After all, if they left, “Would I ever find anyone as amazing as them ever again?”
Sound familiar? Then you’re going to like today’s brand-new episode.
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0:00.0 | Don't allow someone's reasons to make you forget your reality. |
0:05.4 | Your actions shouldn't be based on their reasons. |
0:08.3 | They should be based on your reality. We did a podcast this week based on an email that came in to podcast at Matthew |
0:33.8 | hussy.com from one of our listeners and we just thought it would make a great |
0:37.5 | video before we get into this email which I think you're going to find |
0:40.0 | fascinating I want to let you know that we have a free guide over at moveonstrong.com |
0:46.0 | if you are someone who has had a breakup or someone go cold, someone that you're |
0:52.1 | struggling to get over and you're wondering either how do I move |
0:55.7 | on or how do I have the kind of high-value communication that could rekindle something if that's |
1:01.6 | the right thing and that's a big if I talk about it in this free video |
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1:11.8 | So I'm going to read you this email because it also comes from what some might feel is an unlikely place. |
1:21.0 | It's also a question that is deeply relevant to so many people, even though the details of this are somewhat unique and interesting. |
1:31.0 | She says, and I won't mention her by name, even though she didn't ask for this to be kept anonymous, but I sort of felt given the nature of it we should. |
1:37.6 | This may be a bit unorthodox to be asking for advice since I, myself, am a prominent dating coach for men, |
1:45.0 | specializing in seduction and attraction. |
1:49.0 | However, we all know that sometimes things are too close to home and we need an unbiased opinion. |
1:55.9 | Me and this guy have been seeing each other steadily about once to twice a week for about three |
2:00.6 | and a half months. |
2:02.3 | But this guy is different than your average bear. |
2:06.0 | First off, he's a celebrity in his own right. In a certain sector of Hollywood, not going into detail, but he is a big, big deal. |
2:16.9 | He values talented women and drive, he loves to hear all about my growing business. |
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