MarriageToday with Jimmy & Karen Evans

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, we’re unpacking what it means to build a truly successful marriage from God’s perspective. Jimmy shares how worldly definitions of success—like wealth and status—can distract us from the deeper purpose of our relationships. He dives into the importance of prioritizing a personal connection with Jesus and focusing on love, compassion, and spiritual alignment in marriage. You’ll leave this conversation inspired to live for a higher purpose and to strengthen your bond as a couple by embracing God’s blueprint for success. --------------- Chapters 00:00 Redefining Success: A Biblical Perspective 04:52 The Dangers of Worldly Standards 10:18 The Importance of a Personal Relationship with Jesus 15:38 Living for a Higher Purpose 20:28 Conclusion: True Success in God's Eyes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 12 December 2024

In this episode, Jimmy Evans discusses the biblical commandment to 'fear not' and explores the nature of fear through the lens of Jesus' experiences. He emphasizes that fear is a spirit that can paralyze us and lead to regretful decisions, while faith empowers us to overcome it. The conversation delves into the differences between good fear, which is protective, and bad fear, which is paralyzing. Jimmy encourages listeners to admit their fears, submit them to God, and focus on His presence and love to overcome fear and live a life aligned with God's will. ____ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Fear Not 02:09 Understanding Jesus' Fear 05:57 The Nature of Fear 11:52 Good Fear vs. Bad Fear 18:08 Overcoming Fear with Faith Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 5 December 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, Jimmy Evans dives into the heart of insecurity and its impact on relationships. He reveals how true security is found not in material possessions or appearances but in a deep, personal relationship with God. Drawing from personal experiences and scripture, Jimmy offers transformative insights into overcoming insecurity, trusting God’s love, and building stronger, healthier marriages. If you’re looking for biblical wisdom and practical advice to bring peace and confidence into your relationship, this episode is a must-listen! ---------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Insecurity and Its Impact 03:10 Finding Security in God 06:02 The Power of Scripture in Overcoming Insecurity 11:45 Personal Stories of Transformation 20:01 Trusting God Through Pain and Suffering Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 28 November 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, Jimmy Evans tackles the deeply relatable challenges of worry, anxiety, and fear in marriage, exploring their emotional roots and the biblical truths that offer freedom. Discover how renewing your mind and embracing God’s love can transform your perspective, helping you and your spouse overcome anxiety together. Jimmy shares practical strategies for using prayer and faith to build trust in God’s provision while strengthening the emotional bond in your relationship. Tune in for encouragement and wisdom to help you step into a life of peace, purpose, and deeper connection with your spouse. --------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Theme 00:43 Understanding Worry, Anxiety, and Fear 04:18 The Command Against Fear and Anxiety 07:51 The Role of God as Our Father 10:22 Strategies to Overcome Worry and Anxiety 16:15 Faith and Trust in God's Provision Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 21 November 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, Jimmy Evans unpacks the powerful concept of the Antichrist and how deception is used to lead people away from Christ. We dive deep into the signs of spiritual deception, the dangers of worldliness, and how to stay grounded in faith as we approach the end times. Jimmy also shares crucial insights on the rapture and Christ’s second coming, helping you understand biblical prophecy and its impact on your marriage and faith journey. Join us for this eye-opening discussion on staying spiritually strong and connected during uncertain times. ----------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Deception and the Antichrist 02:09 Understanding the Antichrist's Strategy 06:00 Timeline of End Times Events 10:33 The Rapture and Its Significance 15:18 The Rise of the Antichrist 18:09 The Second Coming of Christ 19:07 Seduction of God's People by Worldliness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 17 October 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, Jimmy Evans dives into the heart of what makes a strong, lasting marriage: effective communication. He breaks down the essential skill of understanding each other's needs, using the power of words wisely, and navigating conflict with love and respect. With decades of experience, Jimmy shares practical tips on building trust, applying the four laws of marriage, and fostering a deeper connection with your spouse. Whether you're looking to strengthen your bond or resolve long-standing issues, this episode offers actionable advice to help you create a healthier, happier relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 10 October 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, Jimmy Evans dives deep into the transformative power of living a Spirit-led life and how it can bring lasting change to your marriage. He explains the importance of understanding your identity in Christ, overcoming emotional and spiritual challenges, and building a strong, healthy marriage through the guidance of the Holy Spirit. With practical tips and powerful biblical insights, Jimmy shows how embracing the fruits of the Spirit can create more intimacy, peace, and unity in your relationship ----------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to a Spirit-Centered Life 00:15 The Importance of the Holy Spirit 01:36 Understanding Our Divine Identity 05:36 The Role of the Holy Spirit in Our Lives 10:55 The Need for Spiritual Regeneration 12:49 Steps to Live a Spirit-Centered Life 13:17 The Nature of Our Flesh 16:09 The Purpose of the Holy Spirit 20:17 Living by the Spirit vs. the Flesh 23:04 The Fruits of the Spirit 28:35 Crucifying the Flesh and Yielding to the Spirit Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 3 October 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In today’s episode, Jimmy Evans tackles the intense reality of spiritual warfare, reminding us that the devil is a real and active enemy in our marriages and families. Jimmy breaks down why anchoring ourselves in God’s Word is essential to protect what matters most. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by deception or struggle in your relationship, this conversation offers powerful insights into how total commitment to God’s truth can bring freedom and victory in every area of your life. ------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Spiritual Warfare 01:12 Understanding the Devil as Our Enemy 07:07 The Power of the Word of God 18:49 Protecting Ourselves and Our Families Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 26 September 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy Evans. Today we’re diving into the power of attitude. Your attitude isn’t just a reaction to your circumstances; it’s a choice that can shape your entire life. Whether it’s how you handle stress, interact with your spouse, or respond to life’s ups and downs, your mindset can set you on a path to joy and success. We’ll explore how to break free from the world’s pressures, choose happiness, and embrace the attitudes that open doors to God’s blessings. Let’s talk about how the right mindset can transform not just your marriage, but your entire future. ------------- Chapters 00:00 The Power of Attitude in Determining Success or Failure 03:39 Choosing the Right Attitude in Any Circumstance 06:02 The Key to Happiness: Choosing a Positive Attitude 09:24 How Good Attitudes Lead to Success and Promotion 12:51 God's Reward and Discipline Based on Attitudes 18:51 Shaping Our Future and Relationship with God Through Attitudes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 5 September 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy Evans! In this episode, Jimmy dives into the subtle yet destructive power of pride and its impact on our lives and marriages. Drawing on powerful spiritual insights, he explains how pride can lead us astray and why worship is the key to keeping our hearts and relationships centered on God. Join us as we explore how humility opens the door to God's grace and strength in our lives. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 22 August 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, Jimmy Evans dives into one of the most challenging aspects of marriage—disarming anger and resolving conflicts. Drawing from his own experiences and lessons learned from a difficult upbringing, Jimmy shares practical and heartfelt advice on how to navigate these tough moments. He emphasizes the importance of confronting issues with love, listening deeply to your spouse, and letting go of past hurts to build a stronger, more resilient marriage. Tune in to discover the steps you can take to bring peace and understanding back into your relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 15 August 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy Evans. In this episode, Jimmy delves into the importance of prioritizing Jesus in our lives and the significance of water baptism and baptism in the Holy Spirit. He emphasizes the need for a passionate, prioritized relationship with Jesus and the supernatural empowerment that comes from these foundational elements of the Christian faith. Discover how the priority of Jesus and baptisms serve as essential supernatural foundations for the church, guiding us to put Jesus first and empowering us to know and serve Him better. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 August 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy Evans! In this episode, Jimmy dives into the theme of healing from scars and the profound impact of emotional pain on personal and spiritual growth. He explores the sources and spiritual aspects of scars, the significance of healing and redemption, and how healed scars can minister to others. Jimmy also covers the steps to emotional healing, making Jesus the Lord of our pain, and the role of God's word in the healing process. He emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, seeking help, surrendering scars to ministry, and overcoming fear to enhance emotional health in marriages. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 August 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy Evans. In this episode, Jimmy Evans explores the topic of discontentment and its impact on faith, happiness, and personal growth. He discusses the elements of discontentment, including unthankfulness, comparison, unbelief, deception, and envy. Jimmy emphasizes the importance of committing to contentment and overcoming fear and insecurity. He shares prayers and encouragement for healing and personal growth. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 July 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy Evans. In this episode, Jimmy Evans delves into encountering the Holy Spirit, the impact of anger on relationships, and effective conflict resolution. He emphasizes the importance of processing anger healthily and not denying its existence, sharing personal experiences and biblical teachings to provide practical insights and guidance for navigating anger and conflict in relationships. Jimmy also highlights the significance of forgiveness and creating an atmosphere of honesty in marriage. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 July 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy Evans. In this episode, Jimmy Evans explores the empowering presence of the Holy Spirit and the significance of receiving the baptism in the Holy Spirit. He discusses four important truths about the Holy Spirit, including that the Holy Spirit is God and that we are born of the Spirit at the moment of salvation. He explains that being baptized in the Holy Spirit is a separate and subsequent experience to salvation, and that it is essential to live a fulfilling Christian life with the power of the Holy Spirit. Jimmy shares his personal testimony of receiving the baptism in the Holy Spirit and emphasizes the need to walk in the power of the Holy Spirit daily. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 July 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy Evans. In this episode, Jimmy Evans shares a deeply personal message about seeing God as He really is. He explores the stages of Moses' revelation of God and dives into the divine attributes of God's goodness, mercy, and grace. The conversation highlights the importance of developing a correct concept of God and how our concept of God is often shaped by our parents. Pastor Jimmy emphasizes the need to disassociate our parents' imperfections from who God truly is and discusses how Moses' revelation transformed his worship, self-worth, and witness. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 27 June 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy Evans! In this episode, Jimmy discusses the incredible power of words in marriage, emphasizing how positive and loving words can transform relationships. He explores the three laws of sowing and reaping, the importance of speaking truth in love, and the role of the Holy Spirit in transforming marriages. Join us as we delve into the consequences of words, the significance of communication, and the power of prayer in shaping strong, loving relationships. ----------------- Join XO Now For More Content Like This!:https://www.xonow.com/ For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday ----------------- Chapters 00:00 The Power of Positive Communication in Marriage 08:29 Understanding the Laws of Sowing and Reaping in Marriage 15:58 Speaking Truth in Love and Trusting the Holy Spirit 26:09 The Power of Prayer in Shaping Relationships Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 6 June 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy Evans. In this episode, Jimmy delves into the crucial topic of building financial intimacy and partnership in marriage. He emphasizes how money impacts trust and security in a relationship, explores different money languages that can lead to conflicts, and shares personal stories and practical steps to foster financial intimacy. The importance of mutual respect, shared control, united faith, and common vision and values in managing finances together is highlighted. ----------------- Join XO Now For More Content Like This!:https://www.xonow.com/ For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday ----------------- Chapters 00:00 Building Financial Intimacy and Partnership in Marriage 05:09 Understanding Money Languages in Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 30 May 2024

In this episode of the Marriage Today Podcast, Jimmy Evans shares the powerful story of his own marriage transformation through the four laws of marriage. He discusses the importance of prioritizing your spouse, pursuing your partner with all your energy, sharing everything as true partners, and maintaining purity in your relationship. Jimmy recounts his personal journey from a failing marriage to a thriving, fulfilling relationship, emphasizing that anyone can succeed in marriage by following these God-given principles. With practical advice and heartfelt anecdotes, this episode offers hope and guidance for couples seeking to build a strong, lasting marriage. Tune in to learn how you can achieve a 100% chance of success in your marriage by doing it God's way. -------------------------- Join XO Now For More Content Like This!:https://www.xonow.com/ For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday -------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Life Message 03:00 The Law of Priority: Putting Marriage First 08:00 The Law of Pursuit: Working at the Relationship 13:21 The Law of Partnership: Sharing Everything 27:42 Conclusion and Encouragement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 23 May 2024

Welcome to the Marriage Today Podcast with Jimmy Evans. On Today's episode I'm excited to share with you my life message: the four laws of marriage that transformed my own relationship and have helped countless couples build successful and fulfilling marriages. These four laws—the law of priority, the law of pursuit, the law of partnership, and the law of purity—are the keys to a thriving marriage. By honoring these principles, you can experience a 100% chance of success in your marriage. Let's dive in and discover the importance of putting your marriage first, working at your relationship, sharing everything, and being mindful of your words and actions. ---------------------- Join XO Now For More Content Like This!:https://www.xonow.com/ For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday ---------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Life Message 03:00 The Law of Priority: Putting Marriage First 08:00 The Law of Pursuit: Working at the Relationship 13:21 The Law of Partnership: Sharing Everything 27:42 Conclusion and Encouragement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 16 May 2024

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast, with Jimmy Evans. In today's episode, we'll delve into the essential elements of creating an honest and healthy family life. I'll share some personal experiences about the challenges I faced with communication in my own marriage and emphasize why effective communication and timely conflict resolution are pivotal. We'll discuss the risks of harboring anger overnight and the significance of addressing and resolving disputes before the day ends. Join me as we explore the virtues of honesty, humility, teachability, and grace in nurturing a transparent and loving family environment. Let's learn together how to be more relational, responsible, and gracious in our family lives. ------------------------- Join XO Now For More Content Like This!:https://www.xonow.com/ For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday ------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Building an Honest and Healthy Family Life 01:54 The Importance of Effective Communication in Marriage 05:10 Resolving Conflicts and Processing Anger in Relationships 08:58 The Role of Humility, Teachability, and Grace in Building an Honest Family 13:41 The Importance of Equality and Respect in Marriage 26:46 The Power of Grace in Building an Honest Family 30:01 Conclusion: Embracing God's DNA in Our Families Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 9 May 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy Evans. In this episode, Jimmy delves into the transformative power of prophetic thinking, underscoring the importance of adopting a winner's mindset and focusing on the finish line. He draws inspiration from Hebrews 12, discussing the necessity of running life's race with endurance. Jimmy highlights how prophetic thinking can help overcome discouragement and stresses the value of receiving prophetic words from reliable sources. He rounds out the episode with practical advice on how to embrace this mindset and walk by faith in everyday life. ------------------------ Join XO Now For More Content Like This!:https://www.xonow.com/ For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday ------------------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction: The Power of Prophetic Thinking 02:58 Thinking Like Winners: Focusing on the Finish Line 08:44 Running the Race with Endurance: Overcoming Discouragement 13:34 Prophetic Thinking: Considering Present Circumstances 28:26 Conclusion: Embracing the Gift of Prophecy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 2 May 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast; today, we will explore the impact of generational trauma. Jimmy Evans shows how past experiences influence our lives and relationships, sharing personal stories and offering practical steps to overcome these patterns. Learn how to make peace with the past, forgive, and create a positive legacy for future generations. Tune in to start your journey towards healing and blessing those to come. -------------------------------- To watch the full series for free follow this link: https://www.xonow.com/zen/the-hurt-pocket For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday -------------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:27 Generational Connection and Family History 06:44 Dealing with Pain and Hurt from the Past 10:00 The Role of Parents in Generational Transference 13:45 Recognizing and Repenting of Iniquities 16:07 Breaking Family Iniquities 23:27 The Destructive Nature of Inner Vows 27:36 Breaking Free from Intervows 30:02 Leaving a Legacy of Blessing for Future Generations 30:14 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 25 April 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday podcast. Today pastor Jimmy Evans dives into Isaiah 61 to explore how God's promise of healing and redemption through Jesus can profoundly impact our lives. He identifies five key areas of healing—poverty, bondage, brokenheartedness, heaviness, and mourning—offering hope and a path forward for those suffering. Evans emphasizes that true healing involves a collaborative process with God, requiring our obedience, willingness to change, and active responsibility. Tune in to learn how embracing God's healing can not only resolve physical, emotional, and spiritual wounds but also fulfill His eternal purpose for your life and marriage. ------------------------------------------- To watch the full series for free follow this link: https://www.xonow.com/zen/the-hurt-pocket For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday ------------------------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction 02:01 The Purpose of Jesus' Coming: Healing Hurting People 09:05 The Dilemma of Healing: Why Aren't People Healed? 10:56 The Partnership of Healing: Obedience, Change, and Responsibility 31:38 Healing: Relieving Pain or Redeeming Purpose? 35:47 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 April 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast, I'm excited to dive into this episode with you. Today, we're going to uncover how the enemy uses pain and trauma to deceive and manipulate us. I'll share some powerful biblical examples that shed light on this issue and offer practical strategies for aligning our thoughts with God's truth to overcome deception's grip. Join me on this journey of healing and restoration in your marriage. -------------------------- To watch the full series for free follow this link: https://www.xonow.com/zen/the-hurt-pocket -------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:23 The Devil's Introduction of Thoughts 09:00 God's Goodness and the Devil's Lies 11:43 Vulnerability and the Devil's Attacks 24:26 Expelling Thoughts That Don't Align with God's Word 25:47 Confessing Our Agreement with God's Truth 28:01 Preventing the Devil from Campin in Our Minds Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 April 2024

Welcome to the Marriage Today Podcast with Jimmy Evans. In this episode, Jimmy delves into the profound impact of pain on our lives and relationships. Through personal stories, he illustrates how unresolved pain can accumulate and affect our mental, emotional, spiritual, and relational well-being. Jimmy identifies three common ways people cope with pain: medicating, motivating, or meditating. Join us as we explore these approaches and learn how to navigate life's challenges towards healing and growth. Tune in to the Marriage Today Podcast and discover valuable insights for transforming pain into resilience. ----------------------------- To watch the full series for free follow this link: https://www.xonow.com/zen/the-hurt-pocket Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 April 2024

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Jimmy and Karen Evans here, and in this episode, we're tackling a question many of us grapple with: what to do when you love your spouse but don't particularly like them. Get ready for a candid conversation as we share our personal insights on navigating those moments. We emphasize that it's okay to have times when you're not best buddies, but it shouldn't shake your commitment to the marriage. Join us as we delve into controlling emotions, the distinction between liking and loving, and the power of agape love. Stick around for a special mention of our book, the 'I Will' Devotional, and details on counseling services available through xomarriage.com/help ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways It is normal to have times when you don't like your spouse, but it should not affect your behavior or commitment to the marriage. Controlling emotions is crucial in maintaining a loving relationship with your spouse. Liking someone and loving them are not the same thing; agape love goes beyond emotions. The I Will Devotional and counseling services are resources available to help couples navigate challenges in their marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Question 00:35 The Real World of Marriage 01:31 Loving Your Neighbor 02:01 Dealing with Dislike 03:00 Controlling Emotions 04:27 Actions vs. Feelings 05:23 The Arrogance of Not Liking 06:22 Commitment in Marriage 07:20 Agape Love 08:17 The Naivety of Expecting Perpetual Like 09:45 Sustaining Love 10:43 The I Will Devotional and Counseling 12:13 Closing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 14 March 2024

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! It's Jimmy and Karen Evans, and in this episode, we're diving deep into the heartbeat of a strong marriage: sacrificial love. We're excited to share insights from our new book, 'I Will,' a 365-day devotional crafted for couples. Join us as we unpack the foundation of sacrificial love, the challenge of embodying Christ-like love, and the pivotal role of husbands at home. We get personal about the importance of sacrificial love as the bedrock of any thriving marriage. Stick around for a special promotion of 'I Will' and our heartfelt call to action—whether it's strengthening your bond with our devotional or seeking help when needed. ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Sacrifice is the foundation of a man's love for his wife. Loving like Christ is a challenge, but with God's grace, it is possible to strive for it. The husband's role at home is to sacrificially take care of his wife. Sacrificial love should be the number one role in a marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Book Promotion 01:00 The Foundation of Sacrificial Love 03:22 The Challenge of Loving Like Christ 06:11 The Role of the Husband at Home 08:56 Sacrificial Love as the Number One Role 10:20 Promotion of the I Will Devotional 11:49 Closing and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 7 March 2024

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! We're Jimmy and Karen Evans, and in this episode, we're diving into the critical topic of having an emergency relief plan for your marriage. Drawing parallels to hurricane evacuation routes, we share personal insights on the importance of being prepared for crisis situations, even those that might seem less severe. We emphasize the impact of emotional decision-making on marriages and highlight the need for help and counseling. From pastors to trusted friends, we encourage you to build a support system and be accountable to others. This isn't just advice; it's our heartfelt call to action—reach out, seek help, and strengthen your marriage. ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Having an emergency relief plan for your marriage is crucial to navigate crisis situations. Seeking help and counseling is not a sign of weakness but a sign of wisdom. Building a support system of godly friends and mentors is essential for a healthy marriage. Being accountable to others and submitting to authority can protect and strengthen your marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Podcast 00:34 The Importance of Having an Emergency Relief Plan 01:31 Making a Plan for Crisis Situations 02:29 Seeking Help and Counseling 03:27 Availability of Marriage Counseling 04:23 The Consequences of Not Seeking Help 05:23 The Importance of Outside Influence and Perspective 06:21 Creating a Support System 07:18 The Role of Church and Godly Friends 08:17 The Value of Accountability 09:42 The Importance of Submission to Authority 10:12 The Need for External Help in Complicated Situations 11:37 Encouragement to Seek Help and Counseling 12:07 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 29 February 2024

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! It's Jimmy and Karen Evans, and in this episode, we're getting personal about the importance of unity in marriage. Beyond parenting, we explore how being a united front impacts every aspect of life—relationships, friendships, and decision-making. Drawing from our own experiences, we stress the benefits of counseling and highlight the pivotal role of communication and shared vision in a thriving marriage. Join us for a candid conversation on why unity is the heartbeat of a strong and lasting relationship. This is not just advice; it's our personal journey, and we're excited to share it with you on the MarriageToday Podcast! ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Being a united front in marriage means being one and not allowing divisions to occur. Parenting requires couples to be a united front and not let their children divide them. Seeking counseling can help resolve disagreements and strengthen unity in marriage. Being a united front extends to all areas of life, including relationships, friendships, and decision-making. Vision retreats can be a transformative experience for couples, helping them align their goals and strengthen their unity. Applying marriage principles and actively working on unity is essential for a successful marriage. Shared finances and decision-making contribute to unity in marriage. Blended families face unique challenges, but being a united front is crucial for the success of the marriage. Resources such as counseling and vision retreats are available to help couples strengthen their marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and the Importance of Being a United Front 01:04 Parenting as a United Front 03:00 Seeking Counseling to Resolve Disagreements 04:28 Being a United Front in Relationships and Friendships 05:25 The Importance of Communication and Unity in Marriage 06:20 The Benefits of Vision Retreats 07:47 Applying Marriage Principles to Real Life 08:44 The Dangers of Separate Bank Accounts 09:43 Blended Families and Being a United Front 12:32 Conclusion and Resources for Strengthening Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 22 February 2024

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Join Jimmy and Karen Evans as we unpack the difference between love and enabling in relationships. We get real about codependency, sharing personal stories, and tackling tough issues like addiction and boundaries. Tune in for a fresh perspective on love and relationships! ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Enabling is doing something that encourages your spouse to continue in a negative behavior. Codependency is a relationship where both partners are unhealthy and dependent on each other's unhealth. Setting healthy boundaries is crucial in preventing enabling behavior. True love means loving imperfections but not enabling self-destruction. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Love vs Enabling 00:33 Enabling vs Codependency 01:02 Enabling in Extreme Situations 02:00 Setting Healthy Boundaries 03:24 Negative Behavior and Destructive Relationships04:20Entitlement and Self-Centeredness 05:44 Loving Imperfections but Not Enabling Self-Destruction 07:09 God's Resistance to Pride and Grace for the Humble 08:38 Taking Responsibility in Destructive Relationships 09:33 Manipulation and Enabling 11:02 Knowing Each Other's Past and Recognizing Red Flags 12:00 True Love: Telling the Truth and Taking Action 12:29 Resources and Help for Destructive Relationships 13:12 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 15 February 2024

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, Jimmy and Karen Evans delve into the crucial theme of forgiveness in marriage. They highlight the consequences of not forgiving, the dangers of bitterness, and the challenging journey of forgiving infidelity. The hosts stress the importance of grace, discuss rebuilding trust after betrayal, and underscore the long-term effects of unforgiveness. Wrapping up, they encourage couples to keep short accounts, seek help when needed, and recommend their book, 'I Will,' as a valuable resource for daily devotionals in marriage. Don't miss this insightful conversation on the transformative power of forgiveness in relationships. ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child ----------------------- Takeaways Forgiveness is essential in marriage and should be practiced daily. Unforgiveness can lead to bitterness and negatively impact the relationship. Earning trust after betrayal takes time and consistent behavior. Seeking help and counseling is important for resolving relationship issues. ----------------------- 00:00 Introduction and Importance of Forgiveness in Marriage 01:18 The Consequences of Not Forgiving 02:35 The Daily Practice of Forgiveness 03:59 The Impact of Unforgiveness 05:22 Forgiving Infidelity 06:54 Earning Trust After Betrayal 08:43 Grace and Forgiveness in Marriage 10:06 The Power of Forgiveness 11:03 Keeping Short Accounts and Seeking Help 12:27 Conclusion and Resources Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 February 2024

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Join Jimmy and Karen Evans in a candid discussion on prioritizing marriage. They share their own journey from the brink of divorce, highlighting the vital need to re-prioritize. Advocating for marriage as the most important human relationship, second only to one's connection with God, they stress placing it above work, hobbies, and even children. Tune in for insights on handling in-law dynamics and modeling a robust marriage. Jimmy and Karen encourage couples to address priority violations, fighting passionately for the integrity of their relationship. A short, impactful episode on putting marriage first. ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday ----------------------- Takeaways Marriage should be prioritized as the most important human relationship, second only to one's relationship with God. Putting marriage before other commitments, such as work, hobbies, and children, is essential for a thriving relationship. In-laws can sometimes pose challenges to a marriage, and it is important to set boundaries and prioritize the spousal relationship. Modeling a strong marriage for children is crucial, as it provides them with a sense of security and sets a positive example for their own future relationships. Addressing violations of the law of priority and fighting for the integrity of the relationship is necessary for a healthy and thriving marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Prioritizing Marriage 01:01 The Four Laws of Marriage 02:26 Jealousy and Prioritizing Marriage 03:25 The Foundation of a Secure Relationship 04:53 Love and Prioritizing Marriage 05:50 Putting Children Before Marriage 07:14 In-Laws and Prioritizing Marriage 08:40 Modeling a Strong Marriage for Children 10:06 Healing and Communication in Marriage 11:35 The Law of Priority Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 February 2024

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Join Jimmy and Karen Evans as they discuss the importance of total openness in marriage. Introducing their new book, 'I Will,' the couple emphasizes creating a judgment-free space for sharing. Drawing from personal experiences, they highlight the role of honesty, repentance, and graciousness in building trust and intimacy. Be inspired to be each other's best friend, bring everything to light for healing, and seek help when needed. A short, powerful episode on fostering a climate of openness for a thriving marriage. ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child ----------------------- Takeaways Creating a safe place for sharing in a marriage is essential for building trust and intimacy. Avoid legalism and embrace grace in order to foster openness and acceptance in the relationship. Being a spouse's safe place means listening without judgment and providing support and understanding. Confessing and bringing everything to light can lead to healing and growth in the marriage. ----------------------- 00:00 Introduction and Book Announcement 01:31 Creating a Safe Place for Sharing 03:47 The Dangers of Legalism 05:10 Maintaining Confidentiality 06:15 The Power of Honesty and Repentance 07:25 Sharing Dreams and Desires 08:39 Bringing Hidden Issues to Light 09:34 Creating a Climate of Openness 10:30 Seeking Help for Unresolved Issues 10:51 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 25 January 2024

Welcome Back to the Marriage Today Podcast. Today, Jimmy Evans reflects on some of his favorite moments from the past five years. The conversation focuses on the importance of communication, creativity, and empathy in marriage. It explores the phases of instinctive romantic love and the need to remember and restore first love. The episode also emphasizes the unconditional love of God and the importance of trusting Jesus. It concludes with practical advice on establishing and maintaining priorities in marriage and protecting them from good things out of priority. ------------------------------ Takeaways Communication, creativity, and empathy are essential for a thriving marriage. Remembering and restoring first love is crucial for maintaining romance in marriage. Trusting Jesus and prioritizing a personal relationship with Him is key to being a good spouse. Proving priorities in marriage through sacrifice, time, energy, and attitude is necessary for a strong relationship. ------------------------------ Chapters 00:00Introduction and Purpose of the Show 00:51 Ways to Communicate Value in Marriage 02:16 The Importance of Creativity in Romance 03:13 The Phases of Instinctive Romantic Love 04:10 Remembering and Restoring First Love 05:36 Taking Action to Restore Romance 07:00 The Unconditional Love of God 08:24 Acceptance, Identity, Security, and Purpose 09:22 The Importance of Trusting Jesus 10:19 Establishing and Maintaining Priorities in Marriage 11:36 Proving Priorities in Marriage 13:32 Protecting Priorities from Good Things Out of Priority 18:42 Putting Family First 19:11 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 January 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy and Karen Evans! Today, we're thrilled to bring you a special episode featuring some of our favorite moments of Karen Evans. Join us as Karen delves into various topics crucial to relationships and marriage, sharing insights on essential issues for couples. From improving communication and navigating financial conflicts to balancing frugality and fun, meeting emotional needs, rebuilding trust after infidelity, and setting boundaries with in-laws—this episode is packed with wisdom and practical advice. Get ready to be inspired and empowered as we pull together highlights from our journey together. You're listening to The MarriageToday Podcast, where Jimmy and Karen Evans guide you through the keys to lasting love and connection Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child -------------------------- Takeaways The foundation of a strong relationship is a shared spiritual connection. Open and honest communication is crucial for resolving conflicts and meeting emotional needs. Couples should work together to find a balance between financial security and enjoying life. Rebuilding trust after infidelity takes time, support, and a commitment to forgiveness. Setting boundaries with in-laws is important for maintaining a healthy relationship with your spouse. -------------------------- 00:00 Essential Issues for Couples 01:42 Improving Communication in Marriage 03:02 Dealing with Financial Conflict 05:54 Balancing Frugality and Fun 07:57 Meeting Emotional Needs 09:21 Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity 12:12 Setting Boundaries with In-Laws Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 January 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, we're diving into the impact of friendships on marriage and faith and the crucial role good friends play in marriage and spiritual growth through personal stories. Learn why surrounding yourself with the right people is vital, as divorce and faithfulness often reflect group dynamics. We'll discuss the significance of choosing friends who share your values, love for Jesus, commitment to marriage, church, and offer encouragement and accountability. Tune in as we explore the profound influence of friendships on your future and relationships. ----------------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 January 2024

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, we discuss redemptive love, exploring 1 Peter 2:21-3:7 as our guide. Discover how Christ's example of enduring suffering without retaliation teaches us to respond to our spouses' wrongs with grace and love. ----------------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 28 December 2023

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, we're diving into the importance of seeking outside help when facing marital challenges that you and your spouse just can't agree on. We'll explore why seeking counsel isn't a sign of weakness but wisdom. Discover the significance of being teachable through Proverbs 18:1-2 and hear our personal testimony about seeking guidance during tough times. NEED HELP? Visit:https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ ----------------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 21 December 2023

Hey there, welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! Today's episode is all about how Karen prayed for me when I wasn't the best husband and what happened when we truly invited God into our relationship. We'll talk about how relying on God to transform our spouses fosters deeper trust and spiritual intimacy and significantly lowers divorce rates. ----------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 7 December 2023

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. Today's topic is one that we are very passionate about. We want you to know we are praying for you and walking beside you as you fight the battle of redefining your personal identity in Christ. ----------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 30 November 2023

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! Today, we're tackling the hurdles of praying together as a couple. From handling different spiritual levels to understanding each other's needs, we'll explore the why, when, and how of joint prayer. Join us in learning how to navigate this essential aspect of togetherness and enhance your spiritual connection with your partner. ------------------ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 23 November 2023

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. Let's be honest; parenting is hard, and it takes a ton of time and dedication to truly raise great kids. Yet on the flip, your marriage should be your number one priority. Join us today as we dive into keeping your marriage your number-one priority while in the thick of raising kids. Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child ----------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child For all links mentioned in the episode and more: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 16 November 2023

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. Today, we're talking about one of the worst things you can say in your marriage. We will give some practical steps to change the word mine to ours. Resources mentioned in today's show:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/jimmy-evans ----------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 9 November 2023

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. Karen and I are excited to discuss a common myth we see in marriage; we're debunking the lie that sex and intimacy are the same in marriage. Vision Retreat Course Bundle: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/vision-retreat-course-bundle ----------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 2 November 2023

We are so excited; our friends Dave & Ashley have officially launched their new Parenting Uncovered Podcast, and they wanted to share this quick clip with you guys. Because you are listening on our channel, you have the opportunity to enter a giveaway, and who doesn't love free stuff? Follow the link below, listen to the first episode, follow, give a five-star review, and fill out the form in the episode description to enter! https://link.chtbl.com/NH9GRC1Q Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 November 2023

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. We are talking about parenting again, but we want to dive into the needs we believe all children have! We have seen the impact a parent truly has on their children. We believe this is the most important job you have as a parent, so lean in, and let's grow together. __________ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 26 October 2023

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. We are excited to be talking about parenting! We have seen the impact a parent truly has on their children. We believe this is the most important job you have as a parent, so lean in, and let's grow together. __________ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 19 October 2023

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. We are excited to dive back in on the topic of leaving and cleaving! We know it's hard, but it is absolutely necessary to have a successful marriage long-term. Are you the in-law in the relationship? This episode is for you too so don't tune out, lean in and lets grow together. __________ Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 5 October 2023