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Oversharing

Oversharing

Betches

Relationships, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Education

4.9 • 1.7K Ratings

Overview

Oversharing from Betches Media is all about the challenges we face in all kinds of relationships; from friendships to family, long term partnerships or even dealing with the customer service rep that makes you want to scream into a pillow. Betches co-founder and relationship enthusiast Jordana Abraham has teamed up with her big sister, licensed clinical therapist Dr. Naomi Bernstein, to answer your questions and try to get to the bottom of the things that bother us most. Think of Jordana and Dr. Naomi as your BFF and your therapist, sitting side-by-side at the brunch table trying to help you get through your problems. Each week they’re responding to listener emails, tackling difficult ethical questions, playing games, and so much more. Because sometimes we really need advice from people with no skin in the game. And let’s face it, your friends can’t stand to hear that story one more time. Watch Oversharing on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverythingsFineBetches

184 Episodes

Am I Outgrowing My Friend Group?

In this episode, Jordana and Dr. Naomi Bernstein reflect on their recent Passover experiences and delve into the controversial topic of the telepathy tapes after many listeners wrote in with comments. The Overshare this week brings up the challenges of maintaining friendships as adults, particularly when it comes to feeling disconnected with them as we age. They explore the dynamics of friend groups from the perspective of then and now and discuss ways in which we can push to get what we want out of those relationships that seem the most tedious. This week’s Betchisit continues the friendship theme when one listener asks how to address the elephant…erm… baby in the room that is causing distress in her circle of close pals. But anxieties with our friends aren’t the only thing keeping us up at night so Dr. Naomi helps set an intention for a woman who sends in a voicemail about her guilt around buying things she doesn’t need. Closing out the episode the hosts review some Triggered submissions around cancelled international weddings and the management of guests when you have a newborn baby.  Watch Oversharing on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverythingsFineBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 22 April 2025

Is My Sister-In-Law Jealous of Me?

Tick Tick Tick…Bug! Jordana starts this week's conversation off in search of an intention that can help her cope with her anxiety after finding a tick on her dog, gasp! They talk about how practical tools, some good old research, and boundaries; both physical and metaphorical, can also help quell the fears of the uncontrollable. In their newest segment, CRAFT MY TEXT, Dr. Naomi and Jordana review submissions from listeners to help them re-draft their messages and discuss the reason behind their proposed edits. Tackling issues like breast feeding in public and vaccine requirements from expecting mothers for friends and family, our two hosts find a throughline of how being vulnerable about one's feelings can help facilitate more clear communication amongst friends and family. They also dive into the question of when it is your job to get involved with someone else’s affair and how to approach the topic. Lastly, listeners write in their triggering moments like how a therapist has lied about her cat ownership and how a friend reopened a healing relationship scab. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 15 April 2025

How Do Small Moments Define Our Days?

L’Chaim! In this episode Jordan and Dr. Naomi Bernstein reflect on a recent Bat Mitzvah celebration for Dr. Naomi’s daughter while discussing the joys and challenges of hosting, especially family. They reflect on the need for more mindfulness in all our days and leave us with some practical tools to remain more present in our daily lives. The conversation explores the need for open communication and accountability in all types of relationships after one Betch shares how her partner dropped the ball on an important anniversary and another shares a wedding snafu that has been gnawing at her since the day. Dr. Naomi provides listeners with an intention for helping set the tone for the moment. Finally, in their “Sweet Release” segment sponsored by Angry Orchard, they discuss the existential conundrum of who has priority on the bathroom line and an annoying friendship moment. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 April 2025

Balancing Empathy and Anger In The Face Of Addiction

This week, Jordana Abraham and Dr. Naomi are catching up on the emotional dynamics of pet ownership with a puppy check-in! Today's Overshare wonders how to be supportive towards your partner while wrestling with feelings of betrayal. Together they address the complexities of trust, remorse, and recovery within relationships, particularly after a relapse. Dr. Naomi provides a meaningful intention for a bride-to-be as she wedding plans and begins to feel the absence of her family. Plus, one listener is triggered by an un-happy hour while another learns she's been low-key paying for her own birthdays gifts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 April 2025

Can I Train My Partner Like I Would I a New Puppy?

This week, JORDANA GOT A PUPPY! Jordana and Dr. Naomi explore the deep emotional bond that comes with pet ownership and how training a new puppy can mirror relationship dynamics. They discuss the power of positive reinforcement, both in raising a pet and in human interactions. The conversation also touches on the challenge of staying informed about current events without becoming overwhelmed. They dive into a listener’s laundry room drama and answer the question, is it okay to leave a note? Additionally, they unpack the struggles of adapting to a workplace with outdated values and finding ways to create long-term change.Finally, in their “Sweet Release” segment sponsored by Angry Orchard, they discuss the frustration of feeling undervalued in your career and the disappointment of unmet expectations in personal relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 25 March 2025

Are My Friends Committing Tax Fraud?

This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss changing social attitudes towards mental health, and the balance between resilience and self-acceptance. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who feels invalidated by people who underestimate the severity of her husband’s illness. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who is irked at her friends’ cavalier attitude towards tax write-offs. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for travel companions who cancel plans due to hypochondria. And, in our “Sweet Release” segment sponsored by Angry Orchard, we’re feeling triggered by remote therapists who leave the Alexa on during sessions and partners who make unhelpful comments during late night baby feedings. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 March 2025

Dealing With DOGE Anxiety

This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi contemplate life without phones and immediate gratification. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who wonders if she should be worried that her husband has remained friends with multiple women he’s slept with. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener feeling annoyed that she’s getting left behind to take care of her toddler alone while her husband goes on a 5 day boys trip. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a federal worker with anxiety about mass layoffs. And, in our “Sweet Release” segment sponsored by Angry Orchard, we’re feeling triggered by in-laws who make rude jokes at our expense, and neighbors who use the snowblower at 2am. If you’d like to get these episodes a day early and ad-free, plus two bonus episodes per month where we answer more emails and have follow-up conversations with listeners for real-time advice, make sure to subscribe at subscribe.betches.com! Check out our episodes under the Oversharing playlist at YouTube.com/@betches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 March 2025

Can I Confront My Friend About Her Personality Flaws?

This week, Jordana tells Dr. Naomi about her recent “brain flossing” attempt, and they discuss a listener’s recent experience of feeling shamed by a neighbor. Our Overshare comes from a conflict-avoidant Betch who needs to have an uncomfortable conversation with a friend. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener pondering the ethics of “line guys” and gaming the concert ticket system. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for flight anxiety in light of recent plane crashes in the news. And, in our “Sweet Release” segment sponsored by Angry Orchard, we’re feeling triggered by employers that infringe on evening plans and unwanted input on relationship timelines. If you’d like to get these episodes a day early and ad-free, plus two bonus episodes per month where we answer more emails and have follow-up conversations with listeners for real-time advice, make sure to subscribe at subscribe.betches.com! Check out our episodes under the Oversharing playlist at YouTube.com/@betches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 March 2025

Coping With Grief In Public

Trigger warning: this episode contains mention of child loss. This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss how to feel comfortable in your skin without being totally put together. Our Overshare comes from a Betch whose relationship has been impacted by his career change. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener feeling slighted after her boyfriend’s family excluded her from a trip. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for how to participate in social obligations that remind you of your own devastating loss. And, in our “Sweet Release” segment sponsored by Angry Orchard, we’re feeling triggered by group trip planning on uneven budgets and flagrant copycats. If you’d like to get these episodes a day early and ad-free, plus two bonus episodes per month where we answer more emails and have follow-up conversations with listeners for real-time advice, make sure to subscribe at subscribe.betches.com! Check out our episodes under the Oversharing playlist at YouTube.com/@betches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 25 February 2025

Do Men Care That I’ve Slept Around?

This week, Dr. Naomi tells Jordana about 8D music and the benefits of “brain flossing.” Our Overshare comes from a Betch who feels insecure about who she was 10 years ago, and worries that her new boyfriend will judge her for it. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who suspects that her friend is becoming an anti-vaxxer. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for anxiety around car safety in the neighborhood. And, in our “Sweet Release” segment sponsored by Angry Orchard, we’re feeling triggered by invasive questions about future babies and friends who don’t Venmo in a timely manner. If you’d like to get these episodes a day early and ad-free, plus two bonus episodes per month where we answer more emails and have follow-up conversations with listeners for real-time advice, make sure to subscribe at subscribe.betches.com! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 February 2025

The Importance Of Shedding Your Shame

This week, Dr. Naomi shares her recent run-in with the police and the feelings of shame that were activated from it. Our Oversharing comes from an engaged Betch who feels like her fiancé isn’t doing his fair share in their relationship. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener whose religious beliefs around extramarital sex keep interfering with her dating life. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for managing volatile emotions before they spill over into snapping at your loved ones. And we’re feeling triggered by post-Covid wedding jealousy, and miscommunications from strained sibling relationships.  If you’d like to get these episodes a day early and ad-free, plus two bonus episodes per month where we answer more emails and have follow-up conversations with listeners for real-time advice, make sure to subscribe at subscribe.betches.com! Follow us on IG @everythings.fine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 February 2025

Is It Ever Okay To Ask Someone Why They Didn’t Get You A Wedding Gift?

This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi reflect on their weekend together, and how to keep pushing yourself emotionally and intellectually. Our Overshare comes from a Betch struggling to maintain her relationship with a negative friend. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who is figuring out how to co-parent with her husband’s ex-wife. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for realizing that your day-to-day stress can prevent you from enjoying the time you can’t get back. And we’re feeling triggered by unexpected carpool drivers and best friends with poor wedding gift etiquette. If you’d like to get these episodes a day early and ad-free, plus two bonus episodes per month where we answer more emails and have follow-up conversations with listeners for real-time advice, make sure to subscribe at subscribe.betches.com! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 February 2025

My Weight Loss Is Affecting My Friendship

This week, Dr. Naomi tells Jordana about her recent kid-free getaway with her husband, and how meditation helped with reconnecting on a deeper level. They talk about the benefits of shifting your perspective from living each day like it’s your last to living like it’s happening for the first time. Our Overshare comes from a Betch on a healthy lifestyle journey, who feels judged by her friend’s comments when they go out together. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who’s worried that her boyfriend’s family’s rigid naming traditions will affect their hypothetical future son. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for turning an uncomfortable situation into an opportunity for growth. And we’re feeling triggered by family members who try to find loopholes around small weddings, and BFFs who have scheduling conflicts with our bridal dress shopping. If you’d like to get these episodes a day early and ad-free, plus two bonus episodes per month where we answer more emails and have follow-up conversations with listeners for real-time advice, make sure to subscribe at subscribe.betches.com! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 28 January 2025

Can I Cure My Husband’s Hoarding?

This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi share their experience as guests on the Tamron Hall show, and discuss the ways that following your peers on social media can affect your mental health. Our Overshare comes from a newlywed Betch whose husband feels obligated to keep every piece of hand-me-down furniture and heirloom his family gives them. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who did the impossible and turned a situationship into a relationship - but her sister won’t let her bring her boyfriend to the wedding. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for the resentment and stress that can manifest when you become the primary caretaker for an elderly relative. And we’re feeling triggered by exes who weren’t the marrying type until they moved on, and getting conned in the TSA line. If you’d like to get these episodes a day early and ad-free, plus two bonus episodes per month where we answer more emails and have follow-up conversations with listeners for real-time advice, make sure to subscribe at subscribe.betches.com! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 21 January 2025

Beefing With My Dying Mother In Law

Trigger Warning: This week’s Betchicist deals with the subject of sexual assault. This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi talk about reframing the way you assess your own life and breaking away from the idea that you’re “too old” to do things. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who wonders why he still hasn’t decided whether or not he wants kids, when everyone around him seems to have it figured out. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a survivor who is struggling to navigate the lingering trauma of their assault. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for the frustrations of homeownership. And we’re feeling triggered by mothers-in-law who exclude us from their funerals and unsolicited advice about weight loss. If you’d like to get these episodes a day early and ad-free, plus two bonus episodes per month where we answer more emails and have follow-up conversations with listeners for real-time advice, make sure to subscribe at subscribe.betches.com! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 14 January 2025

I’m Resentful Of Being A Stay At Home Mom

This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi talk about splurging on your family, and learning how to show appreciation even when you receive a gift that you don’t love. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who wonders if it’s her place as a stepmom to critique her partner’s parenting style. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a mom feeling frustrated with family members giving unapproved gifts to her kid. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for managing stress without letting it manifest into a short temper. And we’re feeling triggered by getting left out of Secret Santa, and parents who don’t prioritize our sobriety journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 7 January 2025

How Thankful Do We Need To Be For Gifts?

This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi are holding space for the pressures of New Year's resolutions, encouraging everyone to enjoy the moment without the weight. Together, they explain the importance of balancing self-improvement with self acceptance and how a "resolution audit" may be the trick to accomplishing your 2025 goals. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who wonders if she should cut her losses after a surprising relationship renegotiation. Today's Betchecist wants to know if she is the one being dramatic over, what she calls, a family of Grinches. And we're feeling triggered by people who don't say thank you for their gifts and an airline seat debacle that makes you wonder AITA? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 31 December 2024

Can I Text An Ex Without Crossing The Line?

This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi share their Christmas and Hanukkah traditions. Dr. Naomi explains Netflix’s The Ultimatum to Jordana, and they discuss the “social experiment” model of reality TV dating shows. Then, they announce some exciting updates to the Oversharing: Calm TF Down subscription, coming in mid-January. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who feels like her therapist is giving her permission to give into bad habits. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a happily partnered listener who wonders if there’s a way to catch up with male friends from her past without any accidental romantic overtones. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for mourning the loss of a loved one during the holidays. And we’re feeling triggered by parents who don’t think we’re funny, and aunts who play favorites on Christmas cards. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 24 December 2024

How Do I Get My Partner To Exercise?

This week, Jordana tells Dr. Naomi about her new therapist, and how she’s getting accustomed to her gentle approach. Our Overshare comes from a physically fit Betch who worries that her fiancé isn’t prioritizing his health. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who feels uncomfortable with how a friend handled a financial transaction. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for social anxiety around infertility and other people’s perceptions. And we’re feeling triggered by friends who assign tasks without asking, and friends who make assumptions about out finances behind our back. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 17 December 2024

My Husband Doesn’t Believe In Therapy

This week, Dr. Naomi updates Jordana on her mission to buy nothing during the holiday sales. Then, they listen and respond to a voicemail from a listener who had a different take on the topic of reselling Taylor Swift tickets that were won in a contest. Our Overshare comes from a Betch whose husband isn’t as enthusiastic about couples therapy as she’d hoped. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who ran into some airport stress and wonders if she handled it correctly. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for navigating the uncertain space between intentional unemployment and securing a new job. And we’re feeling triggered by unsolicited gym comments and mother-in-laws who judge our parenting. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 10 December 2024

I Can’t Afford Vacation With My Boyfriend’s Family

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi address listener feedback about previous episodes, including their post-election take, and Dr. Naomi shares her goal to avoid buying things during the holiday sales. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who misses the relationship she had with her ex’s children. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who got roped into spending more money than she was comfortable with while on vacation with her boyfriend’s family. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for maintaining the peace with family members who make hurtful comments. And we’re feeling triggered by people passing judgement on baby name choices, and friends who try to get uninvited to a wedding. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 3 December 2024

I’m Jealous Of My Family’s Ozempic Weight Loss

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi talk about why we look for signs from the universe, and the potential meaning behind Jordana finding a mysterious bird in her bathroom during the same weekend as the supermoon. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who feels like she’s in the B team of her friend group. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who is angry with a friend who won free Taylor Swift tickets and sold them for an astronomical price. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for body image insecurity around family members who have lost weight on GLP 1 medication. And we’re feeling triggered by exes who get married on our birthday, and moms who internet stalk our crush before we even go on a date with them. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 26 November 2024

Is Companionship Enough To Stay In A Marriage?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana tells Dr. Naomi about her cathartic axe-throwing experience, and Dr. Naomi talks about the benefits of releasing pent up emotional energy. Our Overshare comes from a Betch experiencing a reverse coming out and struggling to find a way to tell her wife. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who learned a secret about her mother-in-law and can’t decide whether she should tell her husband. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for getting away from negative self-talk. And we’re feeling triggered by nosy family members and presumptuous in-laws. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 19 November 2024

How Long Should I Be Punished For Past Mistakes?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi talk about Halloween, moving, and election stress. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who worries that her husband is struggling to let go of past difficulties in their relationship years after the issues were resolved. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who is finding paternal validation in an older male coworker. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for getting back into the dating game after a long break. And we’re feeling triggered by inconsiderate party hosts and coworkers who disrespect paternity leave. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 12 November 2024

Calm TF Down Guided Meditation: Politics

In the wake of this week's news, we're sharing one of last month's guided meditations from the subscription feed. With this meditation, Jordana and Dr. Naomi are here to help you mitigate the stress that politics and elections can trigger, and breathe into the feeling of love and care for the world around you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 6 November 2024

Can I Ask For A Plus One To My Friend’s Wedding?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Naomi talk about their whirlwind talk show experience (more info to come in a few months!), and embracing situations that push you out of your comfort zone. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who can’t help but compare her boyfriend’s family’s excellent hosting skills with her family’s lack thereof. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who wonders if it’s too late to a secure a plus one to her friend’s wedding. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for running into a cheating ex at an event. And we’re feeling triggered by resumé advice and gifts that miss the mark. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 5 November 2024

I’m Sick Of Using My Vacation Days On Trips With My Husband’s Family

Today on Oversharing, Dr. Naomi tells Jordana about her staycation date night, and the importance of alone time with your partner when you have kids. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who has a strained relationship with her father and is considering reunification therapy. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener feeling stressed about vacation planning with her husband and his family. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for coping with being your baby’s 2nd favorite parent. And we’re feeling triggered by ghosts of exes past and boyfriends who invite friends on a trip that was supposed to be romantic. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 29 October 2024

Am I Living My Life Out Of Order?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss what it means to encourage your kids’ interests without projecting your own onto them. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who worries about what suburban life will be like without children. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who loves her mother, but feels embarrassed by her behavior in public. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for letting go of the need to control and correct other people. And we’re feeling triggered by friends who don’t make the effort, and discarded gifts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 22 October 2024

My Mother-In Law-Is Third Wheeling My Marriage

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss Jordana’s recent trip to urgent care, the physical side effects of panic, the ideal amount of daily activities, and Halloween decorations. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who can’t stop thinking about a recent awkward interaction at the drive-thru. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener whose mother-in-law wants to be included in everything. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a social worker struggling with anxiety after a threatening situation at her school. And we’re feeling triggered by ungrateful gift recipients, and festivities ruined by digestive problems. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 15 October 2024

How Much Should I Internalize Criticism?

Today on Oversharing, Dr. Naomi tells Jordana about her new personal experiment with practicing something she dislikes, and learning how to tolerate irritations. Our Overshare comes from a hairstylist spiraling over damaging a client’s hair. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who feels guilty for ditching a confused fellow passenger between connecting flights. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a Betch who feels hurt that her friend’s wedding was scheduled on her baby’s 1st birthday. And we’re feeling triggered by therapy patients who repeatedly cancel last minute, and strangers who touch our babies without permission and give unsolicited parenting advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 October 2024

Is It Wrong To Ignore My Mom's Calls?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi reflect on the interiority and introspection of teenage girls. Our Overshare comes from a Betch going through a divorce who wants to foster a good relationship between her daughters. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who needs some space from her overbearing mom. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for avoiding the overthinking spiral when people take too long to text back. And we’re feeling triggered by sharing clothes with friends and neighbors who forget we’ve met before. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 October 2024

Vengeance Is A Lazy Form Of Grief

Today on Oversharing, Jordana catches Dr. Naomi up on a traumatic event that happened in her building, and how to let go of vengeful feelings. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who feels guilty over not spending enough quality time with her mother before she passed away. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who wants to avoid talking about money with her family. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for shrugging off external judgement about a bartending job. And we’re feeling triggered by getting ignored in the family group chat and husbands who eat all the candy before we get a chance to have any. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 24 September 2024

Should I Be The Cool Girl At The Expense Of My Comfort?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss the perils of growing up with social media and whether Instagram’s new restrictions on teen accounts can help. Our Overshare comes from a an exhausted Betch who had to share a bedroom with her husband’s gassy friends on vacation. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a thoughtful listener whose kind deed at work landed her in an awkward position. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for anxiety after an unexpected dog bite. And we’re feeling triggered by exes who propose on group trips and mother-in-law wedding outfit drama. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 17 September 2024

Am I Living In The Moment or Just Distracting Myself?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi reflect on their summers and whether enjoying your life in the moment means you’re running away from your problems. Our Overshare comes from a Betch whose overbearing mother wants access to her hidden IG stories. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who wants to spend quality time with her friends without them bringing their kids along. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for coping with an obliviously chatty mother-in-law. And we’re feeling triggered by zodiac signs and bachelorette guest drama. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 10 September 2024

If Our Politics Are Different, Is The Relationship Doomed?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss the recent Atlantic article “The People Who Quit Dating” and how a seeking mindset can stop you from living your life to the fullest. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who wonders if contrasting political views are a dating dealbreaker. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a frustrated bridesmaid dealing with an impossible-to-please bride. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a listener who feels jealous when comparing her relationship to her friend’s. And we’re feeling triggered by wedding invitations, and boyfriends who trick their vegetarian girlfriends into eating meat. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 3 September 2024

How Can I Avoid The WebMD Spiral?

Today on Oversharing, Dr. Naomi shares her experience of running into a listener in the wild, and Jordana unpacks her recent waiting room agitation (subscribe to Oversharing Calm TF Down for a meditation on that topic dropping 9/1!). Our Overshare comes from a Betch with concerns about her husband’s drinking and career frustrations. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who wonders why her partner wants to go to a nude all-gender bathhouse. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a daughter struggling with her father’s Parkinson’s diagnosis. And we’re feeling triggered by fat-shaming friends and receiving a senior discount 10 years too soon. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 27 August 2024

Why Do I Feel Guilty When I Have Free Time?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss what the optimal level of busyness is when it comes to stress, and how to navigate contrasting periods of boredom and being overworked. Our Overshare comes from a Betch can’t decide if becoming a mom is the right thing for her. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener whose boyfriend is making her feel guilty for wanting to do something special for her birthday. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a frequent flier with a short fuse. And we’re feeling triggered by insensitive step-siblings and family members who don’t follow through on financial promises. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 20 August 2024

Help! My Mother-In-Law Facetuned My Engagement Photo!

Today on Oversharing, Dr. Naomi’s flight home was delayed, so she and Jordana are back in the studio once again. They discuss how mindfulness and meditation can help when life throws you an unexpected hurdle. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who needs help navigating a step-parent relationship with her ex-boyfriend’s son. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who lost a friend over dog sitting compensation. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a gym-goer who feels anxious after an unpleasant encounter with an angry man. And we’re feeling triggered by moms who expect free labor and mothers-in-law who Facetune our photos without our consent. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 13 August 2024

What’s The Difference Between Love Bombing And Being In Love?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi are together in the Betches studio! They catch up on Dr. Naomi’s NY visit so far, and the dynamics of spending time with extended family. Our Overshare comes from a male listener who wants to make sure he and his new girlfriend aren’t love bombing each other. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a Betch whose married sex life isn’t what it used to be. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for an overwhelmed mom dealing with the Terrible Twos. And we’re feeling triggered by gamer husbands and step moms who overstep. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 6 August 2024

My Friend Never Follows Through On Plans

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss the pitfalls of meeting your heroes. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who feels abandoned by a friend who overpromised and underdelivered on quality time. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a budding novelist wondering why her fiancé won’t read her novel. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a listener who is worn out by her husband’s aging dog. And we’re feeling triggered by a friend misspelling our kid’s name, and forgetful gift-givers. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 30 July 2024

How Can I Get My Husband To Help Out With Our Baby?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss whether there’s a “right” and “wrong” way to relax. Our Overshare comes from a Betch struggling with decision paralysis around choosing an egg freezing clinic. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener whose friends always expect her to pay for them when they go out. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for navigating a sudden loss of libido. And we’re feeling triggered by husbands who shirk parenting responsibilities, and doctors with insensitive bedside manner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 23 July 2024

Why Is My Boyfriend Hiding His Drinking?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss how to encourage your kids' talents without pressuring them. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who suspects her boyfriend is drinking alcohol behind her back.Today’s Betchicist goes out someone who accidentally invited all her coworkers to her wedding. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a listener struggling to deal with her much more financially privileged family members. And we’re feeling triggered by husbands who get too into golf, and friends who nickel-and-dime. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 16 July 2024

Am I Too Boring For Therapy?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi talk about embracing aging and avoiding the trap of immediate gratification. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who worries that her struggles aren’t interesting enough for a therapist. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener whose boyfriend never expresses gratitude. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for tempering emotional responses at work. And we’re feeling triggered by friends who share things on IG before telling the group chat, and meddling future mothers-in-law. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 9 July 2024

Please Stop Spamming The Group Chat

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi catch up on customer service nightmares. Our Overshare comes from a Betch whose boyfriend won’t stop making tacky jokes about other women’s appearances. Today’s Betchicist goes out to someone with group chat fatigue. Dr. Naomi writes an intention to help a listener struggling with driving anxiety. And we’re feeling triggered by pregnancy-induced FOMO and work wives. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 2 July 2024

Help! I Hate My Post-Pregnancy Body

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi kick things off with an update from a listener who previously wrote in about a boyfriend whose behavior was raising some alarm bells. Our Overshare comes from a Betch looking for a sensitive way to announce her pregnancy to friends dealing with infertility. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a mom who is struggling with her post-pregnancy body image. Dr. Naomi writes an intention to help a listener who is repulsed by the idea of her husband using the bathroom. And we’re feeling triggered by emotionally withholding parents and ex-husbands who smoke around the kids. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 25 June 2024

Should I Tell My Friend What I Really Think About Her Parenting?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi catch up on the dynamics of family gatherings. Our Overshare comes from a Betch whose family keeps flaking. Today’s Betchicist goes out to listener with concerns about her friend’s parenting. Dr. Naomi writes an intention to help a listener struggling with emotional eating. And we’re feeling triggered by in-laws who charge interest on loans and act judgmental towards working moms. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 June 2024

I Love My Boyfriend But I Miss The Chase

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss how they’re kicking off the summer. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who’s missing the thrill of the chase. Today’s Betchicist goes out to listener who wants out of Sunday dinner. Dr. Naomi writes an intention to help navigate uncomfortable convos with grieving family members. And we’re feeling triggered by golf dads and recycled proposals. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 June 2024

Baby Steps: Moving Beyond Stereotypes & Navigating Male Infertility Ft. Maurice Chammah

On this eighth and final episode of Baby Steps Season 2, Jordana is joined by Maurice Chammah, Pulitzer Prize winning journalist and author of "Let The Lord Sort Them," as he shares a deeply personal exploration of male infertility. With candor and sensitivity, Maurice delves into the emotional journey of discovering his own roadblocks to fertility, the societal taboos surrounding male infertility, and how his challenges with fertility made his marriage even stronger. Through his story, Maurice advocates for early testing, compassion, and destigmatization, offering a beacon of empathy and understanding for those grappling with similar challenges. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 7 June 2024

Is My Work Friend A Real Friend?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss why youth is wasted on the young and an unfortunate situation of growing up a little too fast. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who may be mistaking a work friend for a real friend. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a long-time listener trapped in the middle of family wedding drama. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for dealing with anxiety around natural disasters. And we’re feeling triggered by portable speakers and break-up notes. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 June 2024

Baby Steps: A Sister's Gift Of Surrogacy Ft. Emily Simpson

In this seventh episode of Baby Steps Season 2, Jordana is joined by Real Housewives of Orange County's Emily Simpson as she opens up about her fertility journey, including the decision to have her sister serve as her surrogate. Emily shares the emotional highs and lows of multiple miscarriages, the legal complexities of surrogacy, and the profound bond she shares with her sister. From the joy of welcoming her daughter, Annabelle, to navigating the process of finding a second surrogate, Emily delves into every facet of their fertility journey and offers insights into finding support, coping with financial burdens, and maintaining mental well-being amidst fertility treatments. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 31 May 2024

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